“…Even if everyone is telling you that something wrong is something right. Even if the whole world is telling you to move, it is your duty to plant yourself like a tree, look them in the eye, and say ‘No, you move’. “
Self efficacy. Most of us have never heard of it before. It’s basically the understanding that whether or not you succeed in a given task is determined by your belief of whether or not you will. Wait…..
I’ll say it again.
Whether or not you succeed in a given task is largely determined by whether or not you believe you will.
It get’s me every time. So many people take on life deciding what will happen to them AFTER it occurs. These people are normally characterized by words like “it is what it is” or “I can’t change that” or “that’s life”. THEY never actually decided anything, they LET life happen to them. There is a vast difference between those who own their lives and those who are owned by their life.
I can promise you, I will never be the latter. There are victims and there are heroes. And if you refuse to decide which of these will define you, life will decide for you.
Victims almost always lose. Heroes almost always win.
Nope, not always right away. Nope, not always at first. Nope, not always in the ways everyone imagines. But I can tell you that in the end, Heroes win. If by character and heart alone. Heroes win.
So what does this have to do with how to live a life of massive impact? Everything.
Impact is difficult. You not only have to care about others, you have to be willing to give it all of you. You not only have to act selflessly, but you need to have the character to be real in doing so. You not only have to want more you have to decide no matter how many people around settle for less, you won’t.
To be a person of impact means making every day an opportunity to level up. If everyday is an opportunity for more, then everyday is also a victory of attaining more. However if all you see are the challenges, you will fail.
You MUST see the victory as greater then the obstacle before you ever begin to conquer.
Without the DECISION to end the day in victory the world will break you. BIG impact isn’t common. MASSIVE impact doesn’t happen by chance. GREAT impact isn’t a random act of nature.
Impact begins and ends with the decision to live in constant victory. So at that moment when you face the daily obstacles or the life changing challenges you can look them in the eye and say “No you move”.
You’ve decided you’re strong enough.
You’ve decided you’re great enough.
You’ve decided you’re bold enough.
Step 6: Now look at the challenges, look at the daily battles, look at the war in front of you and decide. “No. YOU move.”
You can find the prior Superhero Chronicles post here.